Have you fallen for a Sagittarius man and want him to show an interest in you?
If you have, you’ve come to the right place. It’s not necessarily easy to get a Sagittarius to pursue you romantically, but it is possible with the right personality and strategy. And in this guide we’ll share our top 10 tips on how to get a Sagittarius man to chase you.
1 You Have To Understand Sagittarius Men
If you want a Sagittarius man to chase you, you must understand who he truly is at his core.
The first thing you should know about Sagittarius is that these natives are fiercely independent.
They enjoy their freedom, find peace when alone, and have sharp minds that will keep them safe and serve them well in life. They don’t need a partner, and most of the time, they don’t feel an urge even to want a lover, either.
Sagittarius people don’t mind taking risks and will boldly pursue their goals and aspirations for the entirety of their lives. Luckily, they are bright and business-minded. Their confidence will serve them well, and they are likely to be successful in their careers and hobbies. They naturally rebel against higher authority and will routinely challenge their superiors.
With that said, Sagittarius natives are open-minded, adaptive, empathetic, charismatic, and excellent at making conversation with anyone and everyone. They make for good friends and co-workers. And when their heart is in it, they are amazing lovers and partners.
2 Cater To Their Ego
Sagittarius men have big egos, so use that trait to your advantage. Ask him many questions about himself, and talk about yourself less. Don’t worry; once he develops an interest in you, he’ll be asking every question he can to learn all about you. Just be patient.
Make over his drive, passion, or intelligence. He takes great pride in his work, so let him know that you’ve noticed him. Sagittarius men are often creative creatures, too; if he shows an interest in sharing his creative side, let him know how much you admire that about him. If he feels loved and important when he’s around you, he’ll want to spend even more time with you.
Another way to cater to his ego is to ask thoughtful, meaningful questions about his aspirations, career, hobby, or childhood. He loves to talk about himself, and if he sees that you’re showing a genuine interest, he will feel welcomed by you, safe in your presence, and happy to take a few moments to brag about himself.
3 Make Yourself Noticeable
This goes along with the Sagittarius ego. He wants to be special and be with someone equally unique. If you naturally share interests, let him know about your commonalities. He sees his interests as special, so of course, if you’re into the same things, he’ll see you as unique too.
Take the time to look and act your best around him too. If he feels that you’re the most intelligent or attractive person in the room, he’s going to take an interest in you. Sagittarius men rarely fall for the wallflowers, so don’t be shy, get out, dress up, speak out, and make an impression.
4 Get Flirty
Unless he knows you’re interested in you, he won’t be likely to chase after you. As mentioned earlier, Sagittarius men are usually content with being lone wolves.
They don’t feel any pressure to seek out a partner, so you’re going to have to be vulnerable and put yourself out there. Boldly flirt with him and make it known that you are interested in him.
If he isn’t picking up on subtle hints, you may have to shatter the gender norm by making the first move and asking him out. He may be caught off guard but, rest assured, he likes a lady who is memorable and courageous.
5 Allow Them To Pursue You
Make sure you don’t skip the flirty stage before this step. Once he knows you’re interested in him, and he’s showing signs of being interested in you, too, it’s okay to step back a bit and let him chase you.
Sagittarius men enjoy the chase and appreciate a woman giving them their space. You can accomplish both of these by allowing him to make several initiations towards you, rather than pushing for all of the contact and communication you two have.
You don’t have to be available 100% of the time. He will respect that and find you even more intriguing because of it. Just make sure you don’t overdo it; you don’t want to hurt his feelings or make him think you’re trying to ghost him.
Also, don’t ever try to make him jealous. If he sees you getting close with someone else, the chances are pretty good that he’ll let go of you and go back to his old routine. He will not compete with another man if he thinks you’re no longer into him.
One other benefit to this tactic is his ego, once again. If he no longer has you fawning over him, his ego will push him to win you over again. When he sees that you aren’t completely obsessed with him, he’s going to crave your affection with a newfound intensity.
Generally speaking, he only cares about his interests and doesn’t need to spend time with others.
Sagittarius men don’t crave a relationship, and for the most part, they feel happy being on their own. Quietly become part of his life through his hobbies or routine.
This is a great way to spend time together in a low-pressure way. He doesn’t like to feel cornered or forced into spending time with others, so let this develop naturally and without stress. After some time, he’ll begin to appreciate your presence and will become more open to the possibility of a relationship.
Sagittarius men aren’t opposed to relationships; they just don’t feel inclined to chase them. Keep that in mind, and take your time. Eventually, he will want to make you his person.
7 Give The Right Gifts
Sagittarius natives love a good adventure, quirky senses of humor, and are intelligent, career-minded people. He also values quirky and unique items too. If you can cater to these traits, he’s going to notice you and really see you in a new light. It’s not often that other people genuinely understand Sagittarius.
You can never go wrong with plane tickets, a planned hike, wall art, finance or business books, educational courses, or something comically whimsical, like a giant raccoon and opossum-themed motivational poster for his office or bedroom. If you can make him laugh, he’ll be all yours.
8 Be A Good Listener
Part of being a loner means he isn’t used to having a friend to rant or complain to. Having that can be comforting, new, and even addicting for him. Don’t pry for details, but listen whenever you’re given the opportunity.
He isn’t seeking advice. So if you can keep quiet and thoughtfully agree with him, he’s going to keep coming back to you.
9 Stay Optimistic
Sagittarius people have a child-like persona in many ways. While they can be immature, unreliable, or stubborn, they have many positive youthful traits. For instance, they can see the good in everyone; they keep a positive outlook on the future, have plenty of energy, and have a lot of faith in themselves, the world, and the people they love.
Sagittarius men are outrageously optimistic, and they need a partner who will share that joy and energy with them. Remember, they don’t necessarily need a relationship, so they’re happy to be alone if it means keeping their peace and preserving their enthusiastic optimism.
Do your best to see the good in others, have the humility to laugh at yourself, and always be ready for days that are filled with adventure and happy thoughts.
Sagittarius men also tend to be dreamers. When you do finally enter a serious relationship with him, you will need to maintain your optimism, but it’s okay to be realistic too. Sagittarius men don’t mind taking significant risks, and they always assume that things will work out perfectly for them. If you see a disaster on the horizon, it’s okay to speak up and do your part to bring rationalization into his world. He may be disappointed at first, but he will come around.
10 Always, Always, Always Tell The Truth
Again, Sagittarius men want to preserve their peace and live a drama-free lifestyle. He will absolutely not tolerate lies, deceit, or half-truths.
It is rare for a Sagittarius man to lie. If he is asked a question or confronted, he will almost always tell the whole truth, so he expects that from you too. Don’t mistake his honesty for trustworthiness, though. Sagittarius men are notorious for their unstable emotional affection. While he knows that cheating is wrong, he can easily fall into the lies and delusions he tells himself. He can convince himself that he isn’t cheating, even though he boldly and blatantly is.
He sees his actions through rose-colored glasses. Meanwhile, he sees your life with a bright inspection light. Yes, it makes him a hypocrite to not tolerate lies or unfaithfulness on your behalf, but that’s who he is; don’t lie to a Sagittarius man, and you’ll be just fine.
How To Get a Sagittarius Man to Chase You: Summary
It is most important for you to remember that Sagittarius men are bold, independent, and egotistical. He isn’t looking for a relationship, so you’re going to have to put in the extra work to show him how incredible you two could be together.
If you can tolerate these traits and are willing to work with Sagittarius, you will find it possible to make the lone wolf Sagittarius chase after you with love and lust on his heart.